Wow, it has been a long time since I’ve updated this blog. I have to say, I have gone through a period of really feeling resentful of Crossfit, my coaches, and the way it hurt my body. I injured myself six months ago, and I am still having pain on a daily basis. It really sucks. It is definitely better and nowhere near as severe as it used to be, but it is still there, a constant reminder of what happens when you push yourself too hard in the wrong ways.
In the meantime, a lot has changed in my life. I’ve moved to an entirely new section of town, my partner of four years and I broke up, and I have basically just been trying to keep my head above water. I have been wanting to get back into a regular exercise routine but am unsure of what that should look like. After I moved, I started looking around at the gyms near my house, hoping to find something boot campy and women-centric, but so far no dice.
But lately I have been having the urge to get back to Crossfit. It’s weird. I miss pull ups. I miss toes to bar. I basically miss everything having to do with the bar. I have thought about going in a different direction, doing something more acrobatic because of my love for swinging on the bar, but I also really miss the weight / body movement elements of Crossfit. I miss the way it makes me feel. I miss my muscles. I miss my body feeling like one solid muscle, all moving together in perfect harmony. I miss the powerful, invincible feeling that Crossfit gave me.
Even though I haven’t been exercising much (I HAVE been doing a lot of yoga, which has felt GREAT) I don’t feel too out of shape. I definitely am out of shape in Crossfit standards, but my body has retained most of its form. I am for sure filling out, my curves are getting more curvy, my love handles are more meaty, my belly isn’t defined anymore, but it’s fine. I love my body. It is fucking sexy either way whether I am at my muscley peak or softer. This is one thing that Crossfit has definitely helped with. Even though I haven’t worked out in awhile, it really changed the where my body stores fat and how it looks on me. I still feel / look fit even though I’m not actively working out. I forget that the reason is because I spent a good 1.5 years working out like a maniac. I have myself to thank.
The physical / appearance part of Crossfit was always a side benefit (albeit a very nice side benefit) to me—it has never been the main purpose of why I wanted to work out. And it is not the reason I want to go back either. I don’t have any insecurities about the way my body is looking, I just miss working out. I miss getting sweaty and tearing up my muscles and being sore and feeling my body work. I MISS THE ENDORPHINS. That is probably the truest reason. As I am building myself back up emotionally and stitching my heart pieces back together, I find myself wanting to build myself up physically as well. I want to kick ass!!!
Anyway, I am going to check out a new gym today. I am kind of excited about it but also nervous, of course. It is a Crossfit gym that also offers martial arts / self-defense / kickboxing / boxing / yoga classes. And it has a sauna! I am really excited about it because I feel like if it feels right and the coaches seem intelligent / smart / focused on preventing injury that I could create a good routine that still incorporates Crossfit and hopefully some other things as well. I DON’T WANT to go back to the 3 days on, 1 day off routine of Crossfit. I think it’s too much. I don’t think it allows my body enough time to recover. I’m not planning on competing in Crossfit, I just want to challenge my body and get stronger. I don’t need to be so intense about it all.
The way I see it, I would love to do Crossfit a couple of times a week mixed in with other things, both gentler (swimming / yoga) and maybe more intense (kick boxing / martial arts). Before I got injured, I was getting really curious about martial arts, which I have never done before, as I really like learning sequences of movements. I am not really sure what to expect since I know there are many different kinds of martial arts, and the idea of sparring is not really something I’m interested in, but that’s why I’m going to check it out. This gym focuses on ji-jitsu.
Anyway, I will report back after I go today. I am planning on checking out the Crossfit class, just because that’s what I’m most comfortable with and I’m really curious about how my body will respond. My plan is to take it SUPER SLOW AND EASY. EEEEASE my body back into it. I am over straining my body. I want to be good to my body / my mind / my heart / my soul. I want to make individual decisions that are right for me, not just go along with things because that’s what everyone else is doing or pushing for (the double-edged sword of group fitness.) Wish me luck….